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althen artren
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USA
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Posted - 26 May 2009 :  03:53:17  Show Profile Send althen artren a Private Message  Reply with Quote  Delete Topic
I'm back, just had my second kid almost a month ago, and
totally exhausted. Any daddy's out there want to share some stories?

Wooly Rupert
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Posted - 26 May 2009 :  05:18:45  Show Profile Send Wooly Rupert a Private Message  Reply with Quote
I wish I was a daddy.

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Fillow
Master of Realmslore

France
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Posted - 26 May 2009 :  05:25:13  Show Profile  Visit Fillow's Homepage Send Fillow a Private Message  Reply with Quote
Congratulations Althen.
I had my second child, a daughter, last month too, on the 1st of April (which is the day of the jokes in FRance).
4,560 kg and 56 cm ! (10.05 lb and 1.53 ft !). My wife will remember for long for her birth ! 5that's not the same wife than the mother of my first child, my son, and µI forgot to tell her about that !
A great moment in life...

"Today is a good day to smile",
Fillow Big'n'Book Mahlemiut 'Lead-dog', Son of Garl, Wanderer of the Masked Leaf and Namer of Oghma.

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Fillow
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France
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Posted - 26 May 2009 :  05:26:08  Show Profile  Visit Fillow's Homepage Send Fillow a Private Message  Reply with Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Wooly Rupert

I wish I was a daddy.

I will happen Wooly... no ?
Would you need some help ?

"Today is a good day to smile",
Fillow Big'n'Book Mahlemiut 'Lead-dog', Son of Garl, Wanderer of the Masked Leaf and Namer of Oghma.

- Fight in the arena and have fun ! :
La brute.com
- Feel free to take part to these projects : Post-Spellplague bibliography ; 4E index project ; Taverns and inns of the Realms ; Dogs of the Realms ; Descriptions of places in the novels ; forums, RPG, FR Abbreviations and Acronyms
- Come and have a look at the already asked questions from the Forgotten Realms Trivia Challenge

I am a French FR fan, so please forgive my lapses in English language and do not hesitate to correct me. Thanks a lot.
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Wooly Rupert
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Posted - 26 May 2009 :  07:09:21  Show Profile Send Wooly Rupert a Private Message  Reply with Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Fillow


I had my second child, a daughter, last month too, on the 1st of April (which is the day of the jokes in FRance).


It's April Fool's Day in the US, too. I've seen a website (I don't recall the URL) that lists some of the best April Fool's Day jokes ever pulled. It's a fun read.

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Wooly Rupert
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Posted - 26 May 2009 :  07:09:59  Show Profile Send Wooly Rupert a Private Message  Reply with Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Fillow

quote:
Originally posted by Wooly Rupert

I wish I was a daddy.

I will happen Wooly... no ?
Would you need some help ?



Heh, I just need to get some income going on, so we can afford to have a little one.

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edappel
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Brazil
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Posted - 26 May 2009 :  12:26:33  Show Profile Send edappel a Private Message  Reply with Quote
Hey Althen...
Well, my son was born in november 17th... 3,050 kgs, and the heigth I truly don't remember (**I truly hate my memory**)

Now, with 6 months, the things got better.. Finally he is sleeping well, my wife is a bit more relaxed, didn't got any health problem... A perfect boy. Theo is his name.

Hold on Arthen. Those three first months I remember as ones of the most hard of my entire life. But probably you already know it (did you took care of your older one?)

--- Ed Appel

*** I'm a brazilian FR fan. So, feel free to correct my writing mistakes to improve my english.
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althen artren
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USA
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Posted - 26 May 2009 :  22:09:33  Show Profile Send althen artren a Private Message  Reply with Quote
Oh yeah, I know. My daughter is a beautiful energetic
4 year old and she never learned to sleep.
Small stomachs lead to many night time feedings.
Done it all.

I don't know. I just wanted to see some people talk about their
families more. I want to see more human traits than gamer traits
once in a while. (Though I wonder why I'm always visiting this website if I want to see more real life stuff?)

My first was 8lbs and 9oz and 21 inches long. My wife had a c-section
and I thought I was watching the surgeons killing her on the
operating table. They were tugging and pulling and slurping and tissue was flying everwhere. They say I lost color a time or two.
But when I picked up my daughter for the first time out of the warmer,
she stopped crying instantly, as if she knew she would be safe there forever.

Second baby was a boy 6 lbs 13 oz 19 inches long and he has/had several small non-serious health issues. Just enough to worry my wife
and me. With being a 5th level father, I wasn't as in shock at the treatment on the operating table.

Oh' Handsome Hampster:
You should have litters by now. Rodents procreate at amazing rates.
Seriously, what do you do in real life?

Edited by - althen artren on 26 May 2009 22:14:31
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edappel
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Brazil
211 Posts

Posted - 27 May 2009 :  13:33:38  Show Profile Send edappel a Private Message  Reply with Quote
quote:
Originally posted by althen artren

I don't know. I just wanted to see some people talk about their
families more. I want to see more human traits than gamer traits
once in a while. (Though I wonder why I'm always visiting this website if I want to see more real life stuff?)



That's something that normally I ask too. Even being a new user at this forum, I'm very fond of many people around here.

I remember some years ago when I played MUD... It was very nice to enter their foruns and get knowing many people from different plaes of the world.

--- Ed Appel

*** I'm a brazilian FR fan. So, feel free to correct my writing mistakes to improve my english.
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edappel
Learned Scribe

Brazil
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Posted - 02 Jun 2009 :  19:21:00  Show Profile Send edappel a Private Message  Reply with Quote
Well Althen... Nobody answered us.

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Fillow
Master of Realmslore

France
1608 Posts

Posted - 04 Jun 2009 :  21:01:09  Show Profile  Visit Fillow's Homepage Send Fillow a Private Message  Reply with Quote
Oops, I failed...
IRL, I serve in the French Army for 18 years now.

"Today is a good day to smile",
Fillow Big'n'Book Mahlemiut 'Lead-dog', Son of Garl, Wanderer of the Masked Leaf and Namer of Oghma.

- Fight in the arena and have fun ! :
La brute.com
- Feel free to take part to these projects : Post-Spellplague bibliography ; 4E index project ; Taverns and inns of the Realms ; Dogs of the Realms ; Descriptions of places in the novels ; forums, RPG, FR Abbreviations and Acronyms
- Come and have a look at the already asked questions from the Forgotten Realms Trivia Challenge

I am a French FR fan, so please forgive my lapses in English language and do not hesitate to correct me. Thanks a lot.
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Stonwulfe
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Canada
81 Posts

Posted - 18 Oct 2009 :  22:21:37  Show Profile  Visit Stonwulfe's Homepage Send Stonwulfe a Private Message  Reply with Quote
Congrats, Althen. I, too, am a father. I have an 8 year old daughter, and she's been a joy and a trial, all rolled into one. I wouldn't trade her for the world. I do have a fun story of a trying time, that made me love her as much as it made me cringe.

One day, while I was still living in Edmonton, I took my daughter out for a walk in the hot days of summer. We had been walking a long way for a girl who was then only five. So we stopped in a small hole-in-the-wall, the kind of grocery store that condo residents use in older buildings. Well, while I was at the counter paying for a couple of creamsicles, she was sitting behind me quietly. Too quietly. I turned around and she was stuffing her face full of cherry gel candies, the kind that look like a pair of cherries hanging from a stem.

I was mortified, and I nearly lost it. I only had the $5 in my pocket, and was working a job where I couldn't afford many luxuries but the time I spent with her. I'm a single father, you see, and had returned to university to finish my degree. Well, I kind of lost it. I paid the man, apologized profusely for her stuffing her face, and dragged her from the store a little ashamed. Then I saw the look in her eyes; the look that said I had frightened her.

I felt, in that moment, as though my world were breaking apart. So I gave her a hug, and she hugged me harder than in many moments I can remember.

Sometimes being a parent is really rewarding in unexpected ways - sometimes it's the lessons your kids teach you that are the true reward. Patience, dignity, understanding...
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Delzounblood
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United Kingdom
578 Posts

Posted - 25 Oct 2009 :  22:46:01  Show Profile Send Delzounblood a Private Message  Reply with Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Stonwulfe



Sometimes being a parent is really rewarding in unexpected ways - sometimes it's the lessons your kids teach you that are the true reward. Patience, dignity, understanding...



True wisdom is often found only in the mouth of babes!

I have a 3 year old little boy and he teaches me more than my 35 years have done.. But on the flipside I get to teach him about DnD he loves the original cartoons.


I'm Back!
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J D Dunsany
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United Kingdom
180 Posts

Posted - 01 Dec 2009 :  08:49:46  Show Profile  Visit J D Dunsany's Homepage Send J D Dunsany a Private Message  Reply with Quote
Belated congratulations!

I'm a father too. Two boys - 14 and 12. Both gamers, but of the XBox 360 variety. When their beards grow in, that might change of course!

JDD

"How content that young woman looks, don't you think? How content, and yet how flammable." - Lemony Snicket, The Unauthorized Autobiography
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Thauramarth
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United Kingdom
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Posted - 01 Dec 2009 :  14:24:29  Show Profile Send Thauramarth a Private Message  Reply with Quote
Putting in my two coppers' worth - first child, baby girl, born on 4th September

Anyone know where you can get a big, plush d20 (to get her an early start?) .
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Ashe Ravenheart
Great Reader

USA
3256 Posts

Posted - 01 Dec 2009 :  18:34:40  Show Profile Send Ashe Ravenheart a Private Message  Reply with Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Thauramarth

Putting in my two coppers' worth - first child, baby girl, born on 4th September

Anyone know where you can get a big, plush d20 (to get her an early start?) .



Toy Vault

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